This is what I learned about Love !

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This is what I learned about Love !

One of the hardest lessons I had to learn about love is that people can’t always love you the way you love them. They can’t appreciate you the way you appreciate them. They can’t want you in the same way that you want them. There is nothing you can do to make someone love you differently, and it is the powerlessness of this that makes it so difficult.

We always want people to love us the way we love them. We expect people to love us the way we love them, without realizing how high the stakes are.

I learned that the love you give won’t always be the love you get in return. I learned that just because someone can’t love as deeply as you doesn’t mean you’re wrong. It doesn’t mean how you love is wrong. It doesn’t mean you were wrong to love them in the first place. It just means your love wasn’t meant to be given there.

I promise you, there are places where your love won’t be overlooked. There are places where it’ll be appreciated.

I’m learning that, In life, there will be times when you will give your love and trust to the wrong people. It’s easy to shame yourself for putting your everything into someone when it doesn’t turn out as planned. I need to tell you that just because someone can’t love you the way you love them does not mean that the love you give is any less valuable. It just means it belongs somewhere else.

I learned that settling is being with someone that can’t love you in the same capacity that you love them. Your love is so special. It means so much, and you are offering it to people that push you away. They see you as a second option, as something to be dealt with, and as something so replaceable. That is not the love you give.

I’m learning that sometimes people will reject the love and effort we offer. And that’s okay. Let them live their lives. Live your own life. Mind your own business. Your love will be just enough for someone else one day.

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Comments

Avi Kumar said…
I know it's hurt you But I wanna tell you the truth
That true love and care& affection don't exist inside heartless
People.
Everybody on this earth is selfish so don't expect anything from anyone because they don't have feelings and emotions for your concern..
Lastly Be strong �� and move on for future.. Maybe a better time is waiting for you ��
9 June 2022 at 11:55
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